I expect to have more free time this year as I am doing a No Buying Year Experiment. While some of my free time will be dedicated to decluttering and financial strategies, I also want to engage in more activities that bring me joy.
I’ve compiled a list. Here’s my list of things that I love:
- Sunsets (especially in nature)
- Lush, rolling green hills
- The smell of rain
- My family
- Fireworks
- Candles on a clean table
- A new soft bathrobe
- Brunch with friends
- Dinner/lunch out (especially Korean or Japanese food)
- Date nights (especially when I get to get dressed up)
- Beach air, the sound of crashing waves, and a view of beautiful blue-green water
- Relaxing holidays where I can disconnect and recharge
- A cappuccino – yummy
- My friends
- Twinkle/fairy lights
- ALL the Christmas events including carols
- Afternoon picnics in nature with family & friends
- Hiking through rainforest
- Cats being cute
- Christmas movies
- High tea
- The sound of saxophone music
- My little house, when it is clean
- Seeing a musical
- Christmas light hunting
- Leaving home to go on vacation
- Warm summer nights and outdoor social events
- A big bowl of comfort pasta
- Deep chats with wine
- The colour yellow
- Sparkly tiaras
- Reading a great fiction book with a happy ending
- Reading a great non-fiction book where I learn something
- Playing board games in a group
- Travelling overseas for fun and adventure
- Moments of peace and quiet with my Bible
- Walking alone on the beach
- Breathtaking views from a mountain
- Coffee out with friends
- My church family
- Coffee at home with my husband
- Coffee on my own when I get to journal
- Going to a day spa
- Getting a pedicure
- Going for walks with a friend
- Being present with my children and spending quality time with them
- Travelling somewhere new
- Buying and giving gifts for people (being generous)
- Typing out my blog posts / writing
- Painting / being creative
- Volunteering
- Daydreaming
- Making a new friend
- Getting my hair washed and blow-dried at the hairdresser
- Laughing really hard
- Taking the time to enjoy the moment
- Roasting marshmallows over a fire
- The smell of flowers
- Spa baths / jacuzzi when on holidays
- Fishing on a pretty beach or jetty – ideally at sunrise or sunset
- Clothes swaps
- Fun nights out with a group of friends
- Having friends over for dinner or lunch at our house
This was an interesting exercise to do because, if I look at my current calendar and bank statements, my time, energy, and money have not been directed towards activities I love.
I’ve been spending money on ‘likes’ rather than ‘loves’ and missing out on activities that would bring me joy.
I am grateful to have the time to work through this list so that this year I can make some changes.
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Love this post Jus. A thought provoking read x